I found ual texts on my daughter's phone?

Mom's ugh! Mom's always made me nervous I hated moms until i became a parent, though mine is nowhere close to being 17 let alone a teenager I thought I should tell you that he did show a slight hesitance to her lying to you. I mean you have to be a parent lay down the law to protect that which is still your child! and will always be but kids do it and it's fun otherwise you wouldn't have a daughter. So my advice to you is approach it with a level mind and question let her know your feelings and do not yell or you'll lose her respect. Maybe educate her and try your best to understand her but still restrictions should be set by you and in my mind you're gonna be hated by her but i wouldn't let her out to spend the night at a boy's house! Good luck with you decision!